A Journey Intertwined with Grief
For Randi, grief and motherhood are deeply connected. Having lost her parents at a young age and her mother-in-law before her first child’s birth, her transition into parenthood was marked by loss. These experiences underscored the importance of processing grief while embracing the challenges and joys of raising children.
Randi shares how the pandemic heightened feelings of isolation during her first pregnancy, cutting her off from vital community support. However, her second pregnancy was a different experience, with a stronger support network, a planned home birth, and a clearer understanding of her own needs.

The Importance of Community
“Community is everything,” Randi emphasizes, reflecting on how essential it is for both grief and parenting. Living with another parent and child has brought unique challenges but also immense beauty to her parenting journey. Co-parenting in a community setting has provided additional support, resources, and opportunities for connection.
Finding people who align with her parenting values has been transformative, allowing Randi to feel grounded in her decisions and supported in the challenges of raising children.
Normalizing Grief
One of Randi’s missions is to normalize grief and encourage others to give themselves permission to feel. She believes in honoring uncomfortable emotions and seeking support as vital steps toward healing.

Final Thoughts
Randi’s story is a testament to the power of connection, the necessity of community, and the importance of self-awareness in parenting and grief. By embracing these values, she hopes others will feel less alone and more resourced in their own journeys.
Her advice? “Just get a doula.” Whether it’s navigating birth, parenting, or grief, having a dedicated support system can make all the difference.
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*This post was crafted by AI, utilizing details and transcripts from Randi's podcast episode.
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